Yes. I do support this campaign. I think you should, too. Words hurt, especially this one.

Find out more, here.

Registration is now open to ALL campers (returning/new) for the 11th Annual Eric 'RicStar' Winter Music Therapy Camp, aka RicStar's Camp.

Don't delay. Fills up fast. Scholarships available.

Find out all you need to know, including registration form, here.

Focused on ability, friendship, inclusion, making music and having way too much fun!

Happy Valentine's Day! 

Share the love!

Who's the real inspiration in this powerful, well-written Olympic story about ice dancing stars, Scott Moir and Tessa Virtue, and a gusty mid-Michigan teen recovering from a serious car accident?

Read it here.

Say What?

So, 18-year-old, Christian Tumax of Texas stands up to kids bullying a student with special needs and he gets suspended?

Really, people?

FREE TUMAX.

Read the article, here.

More information and resources, here.

2014 Dates & Registration Announced for 12th Annual RicStar's Camp!

Registration is now open for all returning campers for the 12th Annual Eric 'RicStar' Winter Music Therapy Camp at Michigan State University's Community Music School.

Registration opens to new campers March 1st.

Don't delay. Camp will likely be full.

Scholarships available.

Focused on ability and making music!

All information, registration form, camp flyer here.

I have a dream, too, Dr. King.

In recognition of Martin Luther King, Jr. Day tomorrow, here is one from the archives.

I still stand by these words.

In the words of the late, great Dr. King, "What impacts one, impacts all."

Sunday Spirit: from "Miracle on 34th Street."

"Faith is believing in something when common sense tells you not to."

Judy Winter Image 2013. All rights reserved.

Call for Drama Programs for People with Exceptionalities for Ability magazine article.

From Gail Williamson and Down Syndrome in Arts & Media (DSiAM): 

Gail is working with a journalist doing a story on the Born to Act Players out of Los Angeles. The journalist would like to include other programs around the U.S. and the world that provide drama training for those with developmental disabilities.

Are you part of such a group? If so send, add your information to the comments section on the DSiAM Facebook page. 

Weekly Inspiration: Melissa Shang.

Melissa Shang is a 10-year-old wheelchair user with Chacot-Marie-Tooth disease, an inherited neurological disorder.

Melissa is petitioning American Girl dolls to create a doll of the year with exceptionalities.

Inspired by her youthful determination and advocacy? 

I sure am.

Read more about Melissa's effort here.

New Year's Tip #2 

When making new goals for your child and yourelf, try not to look too far into the future. It can be overwhelming.

Instead, focus on achieving short-term, daily goals and success that will help you build a solid foundation for reaching those bigger future goals.

Slow and steady wins this parenting race.

Worldwide Special Needs Awareness/Progress.

Check out the trailer for the new Lebanese movie: Ghadi the Movie, featuring a young boy with Down syndrome.

Watch it here.

Parenting Sass: Brene Brown.

"The uncertainty of parenting can bring up feelings in us that range from frustration to terror."

Truth.

Happy New Year!! Make good things happen!

Judy Winter Image 2013. All rights reserved.

First Tip of the New Year!

Brand new year. Brand new opportunities. Fresh start. 

Forget the disappointments of 2013 and start fresh. 

Focus on what's possible for your child this year, not on what's isn't or on what hasn't happened in the past, and then give your goals all the parenting power and love you've got to give.

What what happens.

Friday Inspiration: Bob Coomber.

Bob Coomber, a hiker who uses a wheelchair, is making another attempt to hike the Sierra Mountains.

Read his most recent story, here.

Call for Dancers!!

Axis Dance Company is holding auditions for dancers with special needs. Act now!

Find out more, here.

Reminder: While there's lots to read on this site and I try to update it monthly, most of my regular, daily special needs updates now appear on my professional Facebook page.

You can find it here.

You can find my book here.

Words from Janet Froetscher, the new CEO of Special Olympics.

 "Now let's all work together to win."

Read more here.

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Halloween costumes for kids using wheelchairs.

'Tis the season to be creative!

Check them out here.

My friend actor Blair Williamson with Lauren Potter. Photo used with permission.

If like me, you've been wondering when that terrific actress/advocate, Lauren Potter, is going to make an appearance on the new season of GLEE, here's the scoop.

About time.

In honor of Down Syndrome Awareness Month, my friend, the talented actor/photog, Blair Williamson. 

Focused on ability.

Jammin at RicStar's Camp 2013.. Erik Taylor Photography. All rights reserved.

Mid-Week Reflection:

I've been focused on special needs advocacy/writing/speaking/parenting for more than two decades. While much work remains, I also recognize just how far we've traveled.

Years ago, I often felt like a lone voice in the special-needs wilderness. Thank God I had the stellar examples of the Shriver family & Special Olympics, and that of Christopher and Dana Reeve to fuel me on during the roughest parenting days.  

Like my son, they remain my heroes.

Today, when I see just how far we have come, all the voices that have joined mine, and the big progress that has been made for this population, I hyperventilate, in a good way. Years ago, I had some big mommy dreams and a huge commiment to righting some big wrongs.

I've seen many of those heartfelt dreams come true, but not enough. We must finally silence that question of whether or not those with exceptionalities, and their families, are worthy of our time, support, effort, resources and dollars.

They are, just like everybody else.

As long as I have a voice, I will always raise it to champion the dignity, equality, opportunities and rights of those with special needs, especially children. My life has been infinitely richer as a result of my son's unexpected special needs.

I won't rest until true equality and better life opportunities are assured for all those with exceptionalities, not a question of doubt and value.

How about you?

Want to make your life better? Serve others. Start with your own children and watch your impact grow. Your efforts will help create a brighter future for you, too.

That's worth every ounce of effort.

I know.

The 4th Annual Audi/Best Buddies walk/run event held recently in Washington, D.C. raised $2.5 million for Best Buddies.

See what can be accomplished when we join forces for good? It takes a village to help ensure the lives of those with exceptionalities are the best they can be.

Kudos to all involved in realizing this success.

Find out more here.

Wednesday Words of Wisdom: 

"Strength does not come from physical capacity.  It comes from indomintable will." -Mahatma Ghandi.

My answer to the partial government shutdown and shameless political antics holding this country hostage? Take the best special needs parents and let them govern.

They'll get things done in record time, for all the right reasons.

Life Lesson.

Life's toughest parenting lesson?

Letting go.

Don't further DISable your child. ENABLE him/her.

Can make a world of difference for you both.

Tuesday's Back-to-School Tip: 

As you send your babies off to school this emotional day, allow me to give you a new definition of the letters IEP: 

Increasingly Empowered Parent.

Feel better?

Now, go be one, and credit me for the new definition and resulting change.

Hah!

Special Olympics introduces Powerful Youth Champion Video

With school about to take flight, why not encourage your child to become a Youth Champion with Special Olympics? 

Youth Champions help make a big difference in the lives of those with exceptionalities and in their communities, not to mention the powerful ways in which it changes their own lives.

Find out more here.

I absolutely love this video. Beautifully done.

Kudos, Special Olympics.

One Father's Response to the Cyrus/Thicke Debacle.  

I like everything he wrote, except the part about kicking his son down the street. I never condone potential child abuse.  

The rest, well said.

I Have a Dream, Too, Dr. King.

In honor of the 50th Anniversary of Martin Luther King, Jr.'s March on Washington and his I Have a Dream speech, here is one from the archives.  

I originally posted it to honor Martin Luther King Day, but it stands for this important anniversary of King's work, too.

Our nation and world need to remember, badly.

Thank you, Dr. King.

People Worth Talking About:

Wife carries double-amputee husband.

Let's talk about this couple, not Miley Cyrus.

RicStar's Camp participant. Erik Taylor Photo.

Breaking News!

Florida Governor Rick Scott signed a bill today that ends the R word use in Florida!

Can you say ground breaking?

Let the discussions begin. Rest assured, there will be people who don't get this. But huge moment.

Details here.

Judy Winter Image 2013. All rights reserved.

Reminder: I try to update this blog on a fairly regular basis, but most of my daily special needs posts now appear on my professional Facebook page. 

Here are the links to my current social networking sites pertaining to special needs. Be sure to pay them a visit!

Facebook: Special Needs Parenting Posts

Pinterest: Special Needs Parenting Board-Fav Resources

Twitter: Judy Winter

Erik Taylor Photography

Every so often news come along that reminds us all how much work remains before those with exceptionalities are better understood and families given the necessary support they deserve/need to raise these children well in their own neighborhoods.

This is one of those heart-breaking reminders that created outrage in the Internet blogsphere/world this past week.

As for the offending neighbor who suggested a child with autism be euthanized,  my response is that clearly this person has a disability much worse than autism.

The story and resulting outrage have created valuable, timely discussion and another teachable moment.

That's not all bad.

Reach the story here.

Judy Winter Image 2013. All rights reseved.

Play Ball!!

Short piece about the inclusion of kids with exceptionalities in America's Favorite Pastime,

Watch it here.

Back-to-School Memories

With back-to-school prep gearing up, here's one of my fav past posts from the archives.

Still timeless. 

Maybe it will help fuel a new, annual b-t-s rite of your own. Maybe help your parenting perspective, too. 

Enjoy my Letter to Eric.

Worth the Share:

Five states selected to participate in five-year, Federally funded national study to see how to increase amount of time kids with special needs spend in regular classroom with peers without exceptionalities. 

Yes, please.

read it here.

John Agar crosses the finish line at the 2013 Ludington Lighthouse Triathlon with support of family and friends and pure determination. Photo by Judy Winter 2013. All rights reserved.

After walking across the finish line of the 2013 Ludington Lighthouse Triathlon, John Agar experiences joy. Photo Judy Winter 2013. All righs reserved.

FOCUSED ON ABILITY

My Michigan buddy, John Agar, walked across the finish line of the Ludington Lighthouse Triathlon in Ludington, Michigan last Sunday. 

No small feat.

John has cerebral palsy and uses a wheelchair to get around most days. He walked the last mile of this race, as he has others, and crossed the finish line with the support of his family and a walker. 

That's John's proud dad on the right.

ESPN was there filming John's story for an upcoming feature.

John Agar is a remarkable young athlete. 

John wouldn't be where he is today without the dedicated and loving support of his remarkable family. They never doubt his value.

What goals are you setting for your child, and yourself, today?


If you want to include your child in races/triathlons, here's a great resource to help you do just that.

Jammin at the Eric 'RicStar' Winter Music Therapy Camp at Michigan State University. Photo by Erik Taylor. All rights reserved.

Time for some new posts here. Because I love music therapy and music therapists and all the good they do, especially for those with special needs, let's start with this report from CNN.

The Social Security Administration  becomes the latest governmental agency to replace the term mental retardation with intellectual disability.  Thank you.

Read more here.

I love progress.

Congratulations and big kudos to Special Olympics for 45 years of celebrating abilities and championing the lives of individuals with intellectual disabilities. 

You've changed the world for all of us.

Thank you.

Special Note: Here's the latest regarding the announcement that President Barack Obama and First Lady Michelle Obama will serve as Special Olympics Honorary Chairs of the 2015 Summer Games. Ground breaking to say the least. Celebrate!

Ladies of The Talk- Are You Listening?

Monday Mini Rant:

So, the ladies of The Talk took time today to discuss at length Paula Dean's wrongful and on-going use of the N word, as they should. Kudos for that conversation.

But, the gals uttered not one single word when guest Felicity Huffman said the word retarded on their program weeks ago, even though Huffman immediately apologized for her indiscretion.

This slur impacts millions of individuals with intellectual disabilities and their families worldwide. 

It, too, keeps ugly, outdated stereotypes alive and gets in the way of education, job opportunities and a better life. The r-word, too, is worthy of discussion.

So, let's get talkin, ladies.

My Response to the Heated Whoopi Goldberg/Bill Mahrer/Sarah Palin R-Word Controversy

I don't have the energy today to get in the middle of the Whoopi Goldberg/Bill Maher/Sarah Palin r-word controversy, so I'll just share a ramble I wrote last year on this very topic. 

I now share these emotional, heartfelt words whenever this controversy rears it's less-than-pretty head. I do so in the hope it creates greater understanding and increased awareness of why the word is so offensive to millions of people worldwide, and why it has now been replaced with the word Intellectual Disability. 

By sharing, it's my attempt to further educate and be an effective special needs change agent, cause that's how I roll. 

You can read my rant here.

Only the names have changed.

Here's a little background info for you, too, to bring you up to speed. 

Reminder. I try to update here on a fairly regular basis, but most of my daily special needs posts now appear on my professional Facebook page. Here are the links to my current social networking sites pertaining to special needs.

Facebook: Special Needs Parenting Posts
Pinterest: Special Needs Parenting Board-Fav Resources
Twitter: Judy Winter

Monday A.M./P.M. Mantra:

It's OKAY to ask for help. What's your most pressing need this week? Go wrangle up the support you need to help meet that need. 

It's not a weakness to ask for help. Just the opposite. It's empowering.

Judy Winter Image 2013. All rights reserved.

Monday Spirit:

I missed sharing Sunday Spirit with you yesterday, so let's make it Monday Spirit instead. I think this quote is a good one for week-long motivation and daily living. Hope you agree.

"Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every moment with love, grace and gratitude." 
-Denis Waitley.

Face of RicStar's Camp 2013!

Judy Winter Image. RicStar's Camp 2013. All rights reserved.

I know you want to see this amazing face of ability from RicStar's Camp 2013.

Evan Fiorella is one of our long-time, terrific RicStar's Camp participants from Canada. He is now studying music at Michigan State University's Community Music School through a specialized program. He asked me if I thought Eric (my son and camp namesake) could hear all the music campers were playing at camp and if he'd be proud. I answered by showing Evan a photo of himself that I had just taken of him in his rock session. Told him this was his answer.

Also told him he got extra points for looking like just another crazed MSU student.

Focused on Ability.

Monday A.M. Mini Rant:

So, it's Monday and I'm coming off an amazing high from watching so many people of all ages with exceptionalities showcase their hard-hard-won successes at RicStar's Camp. 

Today's headline/breaking news? Kim Kardashian had a baby girl. Pardon me if my brain/soul are having trouble balancing the two realities.

Famous for what, exactly?

Now, if her five pound little darlin ends up having any kind of special needs, we'll talk.

Mini rant over.

Got a great idea for a rehabilitation or assistive-technology device? You might get it funded. 

More here.

So You Think You Can Dance contestant, Shane Garcia, stutters and uses dance as language. 

He speaks volumes.

Watch here.

Random Thoughts:

"It's not your job to like me; it's mine." -Byron Katie

Judy Winter Image. All rights reserved.

A MOTHER'S DAY WISH

When it comes to sacred mommyhood, I've been twice blessed; hit the parenting jackpot both times. 

While Sunday's yearly focus on moms is now bittersweet for me because of my son's passing ten years ago, I'm honored to proclaim that I will always be the mother of two incredible children. Major life blessings. Don't underestimate how blessed you are, either, even during the roughest parenting moments.

My Mother's Day wish is that others see their children through new eyes of gratitude and possibilities. That would be a true gift.

Happy Mother's Day to me, and to you, too.

Mother's Day Inspiration: Eunice Kennedy Shriver

"The gift my mother gave me was the gift of possibility. The gift that I could do anything that I wanted to do." -Maria Shriver

Wednesday WOW! Want/need a little mid-week inspiration? Watch this tribute to Eunice Kennedy Shriver from her daughter, Maria Shriver. 

Beautiful and powerful.

Eunice Kennedy Shriver wasn't my mom, but she will always be my hero and an on-going inspiration in my work and life. Wish I'd had the honor of meeting her.

Lucky Maria.

Photo courtesy of Special Olympics. Used with permission.

Wednesday's Weekly Words of Wisdom: Thomas Edison. 

"If we all did the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves."

Thursday's Tip: 

Don't ignore kids with special needs at family gatherings. Work hard to include them and teach other family members to do the same.

If that requires training, teach them.

Challenging the Ladies of The Talk to Talk about Yesterdays' R-Word Controversy;

Here's what I posted at The Talk's Facebook page. You can add your voice, too. Please, speak up.
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As an author/speaker/activist on special needs issues, I was hoping you chatty ladies of 'The Talk' would address yesterday's R-word/Felicity Huffman controversy and your own lack of response to it after it happened on air. Unfortunately, you chose not to do so and instead spent time high fiving yourselves over your Emmy nominations (congrats, by the way). 

But I, and many others who care deeply about and advocate for the special needs population, are more than a little disappointed at your avoidance of the subject, especially since you do such a great job addressing other important human rights issues/topics.  This topic is no less important. 

We've come a long way regarding awareness and coverage of disability rights, but we've a long way to go as supported by your silence. Perhaps you'll revisit this R-word discussion//controversy in one of your upcoming programs. One can hope.

You have the voices to do so and it's a discussion worthy of your talk time.

So please, ladies, get talkin.

Here, once again, is a prior piece I wrote about why I find R-word use so offensive and hurtful and why I, like millions of others, advocate for not using the terminology. Only the names of the offenders have changed.

Great Summer Internship Op!!

Christopher and Dana Reeve Foundation. Details, here.

A.D.H.D. or Sleep Deprivation?

What if your child (or an adult) doesn't really have A.D.H.D., but rather, a sleep disorder?

Fascinating read from Sunday's New York Times, and much food for parenting thought.

Get those kids to bed early, and yourself, too.

Wednesday's Word of Wisdom: Felicity Huffman re: her use of the word retarded on The Talk yesterday.

"So sorry about the R word. It's all I can think about; wish I could rewind and not use such an offensive term......I deeply apologize for my thoughtlessness and I ask for your forgiveness.....I have people who are very close to me that are mentally challenged and I believe in acceptance, love and inclusiveness. 

I messed up."

I'm pretty sure she heard from Eva Longoria, who has a sister with intellectual disabilities.


And this one, from Maya Angelou. "When you know better, you do better."

Forgiven.