If you missed last night's 'Larry King Live' program on autism, here's the link for a partial viewing. The program featured Jason J-Mac McElwain, who became a national sensation after scoring 20 points straight during a high school basketball game in 2006. Jason, a charming and well-spoken young adult with higher-functioning autism, went on to win the ESPN ESPY Award for Best Moment in Sports 2006. He has written a book about his life entitled The Game of my Life.
Here's the link to the interview:
http://edition.cnn.com/video/#/video/bestoftv/2008/02/27/lkl.autism.long.cnn
Also on the program, Holly Robinson Peete, Toni Braxton, and Doug Flutie who all have sons with autism. The Doug Flutie Jr. Foundation for Autism provides resources and other support for families facing this challenging diagnosis. Check it out:
www.dougflutiejrfoundation.org
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Thursday, February 28, 2008
Monday, February 25, 2008
WKAR-TV (PBS affiliate) and the film Rolling
Megan's Beach
U.S. Virgin Islands
I'm back after a nearly two-week sun-filled excursion to the U.S. Virgin Island where I spent some much-needed time refueling from the craziness of the year, while also honoring the fifth anniversary of my son's death. You never get over the loss of a child, but I've learned that you can live with renewed purpose that does justice to your child's life and legacy, and helps you get out of bed in the morning.
Every so often, I need to stop and remember why I have taken on what I have taken on. My son remains my on-going muse and teacher, and I miss Eric every single day. I remain in awe and humbled by what this young child's life has meant to so many others facing the challenges of special needs throughout the world.
So much for focusing on a child's disability...
Lots has been happening in my absence, and I'll try my best to catch you (and me) up on some of the highlights soon. But in the meantime, here's an April event that I'm thrilled and honored to be part of; be sure to check air dates/times for the film Rolling on your PBS affiliate station. There may be a local effort planned in your own community. Check it out!
I gotta go unpack and do some laundry!
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"Rolling Event"
Saturday, April 26, 11 a.m.-5 p.m.
at WKAR
"Rolling" is a television documentary profiling wheelchair users.
FOR MORE INFORMATION ON THIS DOCUMENTARY, VISIT: http://www.thirteen.org/rolling
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WKAR Receives Grant for Community Event
WKAR-TV was recently awarded a $4,000 grant by WNET/New York to host a community event focusing on wheelchair use and relating to the public television program Rolling, which will air on the public television station this spring. The grant was one of five offered to public television stations nationwide.
The free event will take place at WKAR on Saturday, April 26, from 11 a.m. to 5 p.m., and include both an extensive resource room and a program featuring several speakers, a musical performance and a preview of the national documentary.
Community partners for this event are the Capital Area Center for Independent Living, Center for Educational Networking, Peckham Industries, MSU College of Music and Community Music School, and MSU’s Resource Center for Persons with Disabilities. Judy Winter, the author of “Breakthrough Parenting for Children with Special Needs,” and nationally recognized speaker and advocate, is serving as project advisor.
The day-long event will include a resource room featuring organizations dealing with wheelchair use, independent living, and special needs, among other related topics. Those attending the free event will be able to pick up information and talk with representatives from participating organizations.
The program will take place at 1 p.m. and include remarks from several leaders on this topic, including Judy Winter, Al Swain of the Capital Area Center for Independent Living and a teen who is a wheelchair user. The program will also include a performance by students from the Music Therapy Program at Michigan State University’s Community Music School and a preview of the television documentary.
Please visit WKAR.org closer to the event date for an updated schedule and additional information.
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Monday, February 11, 2008
Reminder/Update Re: Dance War & DSALA--Airing Tonight!
A quick update regarding tonight's episode of Dance War: Team Bruno vs Team Carrie Ann.
Members of the Down Syndrome Association of Los Angeles (DSALA) have been informed that they WILL have 60 seconds of fame on tonight's show. (See my Feb. 8 entry for more details). Check your local listings for broadcast time.
First, the PepsiCo Superbowl ad and the inclusion of kids with Down syndrome in the Oprah MLK tribute earlier this month, and now this! It's this kind of continued coverage (in addition to on-going media talk of autism on programs like Larry King Live and Oprah) that indicates valuable progress is being made in creating awareness and acceptance of a wide range of special needs coverage in major media.
Very cool...and long overdue.
Congrats to Gail Williamson and DSALA members for pulling this off! This is great exposure during valuable prime-time on a hot new program! Be sure to watch- and vote!
-And remember to write the network and tell them you approve!
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Members of the Down Syndrome Association of Los Angeles (DSALA) have been informed that they WILL have 60 seconds of fame on tonight's show. (See my Feb. 8 entry for more details). Check your local listings for broadcast time.
First, the PepsiCo Superbowl ad and the inclusion of kids with Down syndrome in the Oprah MLK tribute earlier this month, and now this! It's this kind of continued coverage (in addition to on-going media talk of autism on programs like Larry King Live and Oprah) that indicates valuable progress is being made in creating awareness and acceptance of a wide range of special needs coverage in major media.
Very cool...and long overdue.
Congrats to Gail Williamson and DSALA members for pulling this off! This is great exposure during valuable prime-time on a hot new program! Be sure to watch- and vote!
-And remember to write the network and tell them you approve!
JudyWinter.com
Breakthrough Parenting for Children with Special Needs: Raising the Bar of Expectations
MySpace.com/judy_winter
Friday, February 08, 2008
Granddoggy Zelda
I'm a wee bit tired of all the heavy snow of late, but my daughter's furry baby Zelda is simply captivated! The enchantress helps me see the powdery old landscape through brand new eyes...
Kids and granddoggies- life's greatest teachers!
Thanks, Z! xo
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Dance War and the Down Syndrome Association of Los Angeles (DSALA)
My friend Gail Williamson keeps me up to date on all the terrific things she's doing in her important role as executive director of the Down Syndrome Association of Los Angeles (DSALA). Gail also oversees the Heart & Halo Talent division of DSALA and books gigs for actors with special needs.
This woman is a dynamo, and the go-to person for many people looking to cast individuals with special needs for film and television in Hollywood and beyond. Gail's also the parent of a successful working actor with Down syndrome, my good buddy Blair! That's us at my book signing at the Crystal Cathedral in Garden Grove, California. You can read more about the amazing Williamson duo in my book.
Here's another cool announcement Gail just shared with me.
The Down Syndrome Association of Los Angeles (DSALA) hosted a meet and greet with “Team Bruno” of the ABC prime time show “Dance War – Bruno vs. Carrie Ann.”
(Photo by Tony Maddox of Tony Maddox Photography www.tonymaddoxphotography.com)DSALA members got together to cheer up “Team Bruno” after their second week loss of the public phone-in vote to “Team Carrie-Ann.” DSALA contacted ABC and “Dance Wars” after the initial show introduced Zach a “Team Bruno” member (in grey T-shirt with thumbs-up) who has an older brother Matt who was born with Down syndrome and lives in Utah.
ABC filmed the event and intends on airing the footage on the Monday, February 11, 2008 show. DSALA will not get the final word on their appearance until Saturday, February 9. Knowing we couldn’t let everyone know between Saturday and Monday night we have chosen to let the public know of our “possible appearance” so they can watch just in case we make it.
The DSALA would also like to encourage all our friends and family to vote for “Team Bruno” following the show Monday night.
“Dance Wars – Bruno vs. Carrie Ann”
Monday, February 11, 2008
ABC, check local listings for time
http://abc.go.com/primetime/dancewar/index?pn=index
Down Syndrome Association of Los Angeles, Inc.
Gail Williamson, Exc. Director
315 Arden Avenue, Suite 25
Glendale, CA 91203
818-242-7871 office
818-242-7819 fax
www.dsala.org
info@dsala.org
Hmmm... until now, I was backing Team Carrie Ann......
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Friday, February 01, 2008
I'm a Big Fan of...! February 2008
Here's my February 2008 gush.
I'M A BIG FAN OF SIBLINGS IN SPECIAL NEEDS FAMILIES!
Siblings in special needs families are my heroes, including Rachel (above) with her brother, Regan.
These sibs take on priceless roles in challenging family life situations with little or no voice about those tough roles. Yet, if we pay attention to meeting their needs, too, these amazing young people often grow up to become responsible, caring young adults with a maturity far greater than many of their peers. Many choose to go into helping professions like teaching and various therapy careers, the direct result of their day-to-day real-life experiences. These choices clearly benefit society.
Still, these kids often exchange childhood innocence to lay claim to those valuable lessons in adult maturity. Theirs is no easy role to take on, and I marvel that so many, like Rachel, do it with such grace, dignity, fierce sibling loyalty, and unconditional love.
As adults, we have much to learn from these special siblings.
Recently, I received a wonderful e-mail from Rachel, a college student who took the time to write and tell me how much she enjoyed my book. Rachel also shared her inspiring words of support and love for her brother, Regan, now a high school senior.
I'M A BIG FAN OF SIBLINGS IN SPECIAL NEEDS FAMILIES!
Siblings in special needs families are my heroes, including Rachel (above) with her brother, Regan.
These sibs take on priceless roles in challenging family life situations with little or no voice about those tough roles. Yet, if we pay attention to meeting their needs, too, these amazing young people often grow up to become responsible, caring young adults with a maturity far greater than many of their peers. Many choose to go into helping professions like teaching and various therapy careers, the direct result of their day-to-day real-life experiences. These choices clearly benefit society.
Still, these kids often exchange childhood innocence to lay claim to those valuable lessons in adult maturity. Theirs is no easy role to take on, and I marvel that so many, like Rachel, do it with such grace, dignity, fierce sibling loyalty, and unconditional love.
As adults, we have much to learn from these special siblings.
Recently, I received a wonderful e-mail from Rachel, a college student who took the time to write and tell me how much she enjoyed my book. Rachel also shared her inspiring words of support and love for her brother, Regan, now a high school senior.
With her permission, I am sharing her heartfelt words and the photo of her with the brother she clearly adores.
I hope that Rachel's words of wisdom inspire you as much as they do me.
-Please remember that it's important to take good care of all the kids in your family...that's why I devoted an entire chapter to sibling voices in my book.
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My name is Rachel, and I am a junior Communications major at Southern Utah University. I recently read your fantastic book, and I am giving a report on it in my parenting class this Friday. I want to thank you for your book. I thoroughly enjoyed reading it! I, like your daughter, was born the first grandchild and I was healthy and happy. When I was 2 1/2 years old, my brother was born with cerebral palsy. My parents and the doctors knew something was wrong but they weren't able to diagnose him for a few years.
I hope that Rachel's words of wisdom inspire you as much as they do me.
-Please remember that it's important to take good care of all the kids in your family...that's why I devoted an entire chapter to sibling voices in my book.
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My name is Rachel, and I am a junior Communications major at Southern Utah University. I recently read your fantastic book, and I am giving a report on it in my parenting class this Friday. I want to thank you for your book. I thoroughly enjoyed reading it! I, like your daughter, was born the first grandchild and I was healthy and happy. When I was 2 1/2 years old, my brother was born with cerebral palsy. My parents and the doctors knew something was wrong but they weren't able to diagnose him for a few years.
Regan cannot walk or talk, but he has a machine called a Pathfinder that talks for him. He also has developed his own form of sign language, which we call "Reglish" that we use to communicate. Today Regan is 17 years old and a senior in high school. He is very interested in the news and film production, and he loves to travel. One of his favorite places to be is riding in the car in traffic on a busy highway! Regan is the most amazing person I know and I am so grateful to be his big sister.
I wouldn't trade my brother for the whole world. I know he was sent to our family to help us learn patience, love, hope, and so many other things. Regan has a message he likes to share with everyone he meets. His message is "Don't be sad if you ever have a child or grandchild with special needs. It is just a different journey so hop on and enjoy the ride!"
When I read the chapter about siblings of special needs children, I found that I can totally relate, and it was fun for me to be able to hear other's stories. It sounds like your son was a pretty amazing kid, and I thank you for sharing a little of him with me. I have a special place in my heart for children like Regan and Eric. I know they are God's special angels and they were sent to this Earth for a purpose. I am sorry for your loss, and I want you to know that I admire your strength and courage.
Thank you again for your amazing book and for your example.
-Rachel
-and thank you, Rachel, for sharing your insightful, loving words with me , and with the world! You inspire me.
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DO YOU EVER WONDER WHY? -February 2008
DO YOU EVER WONDER WHY?...
When you make a purchase these days, so often, you're the one spouting those lovely little words hello, thank you and have a nice day? Aren't businesses (or parents) today training employees/children in the ABC's of retail/social basics, or don't they practice them either?
I've tried standing at the counter long after a costly transaction, staring hopefully in anticipation. It doesn't work! All it does is make the employee give me one of those clueless, unnerving what-do-you-want-now looks that makes me want to throw whatever I just bought at 'em, especially the Mackinac Island Fudge Ice Cream that's already seeping through the ripped bag and onto my well-worn UGGS, making them look even uglier.
Please excuse me for asking, but what has happened to basic customer service, simple manners and the sacred mantra that the customer is is always right? More often than not, these treasures of civility seem to be missing in retail action.
FYI business owners: More and more I'm making my spending choices based on good customer service. I can, will and do pay more for this luxury. My husband will assure you that this far-too-frequent customer service snafu is costing you some major bucks!
Perhaps you could you at least try to address this before my next shopping trip?
Please?
Just asking... and thank you in advance!
Parents please take note-- there's little worse than a spoiled child with special needs, no manners and no discipline, unless of course, it's a privileged child without special needs, no manners and no discipline...!
Manners matter, and they should be taught to all children-
and modeled by the adults in their lives.
JudyWinter.com
Breakthrough Parenting for Children with Special Needs: Raisng the Bar of Expectations
MySpace.com/judy_winter
When you make a purchase these days, so often, you're the one spouting those lovely little words hello, thank you and have a nice day? Aren't businesses (or parents) today training employees/children in the ABC's of retail/social basics, or don't they practice them either?
I've tried standing at the counter long after a costly transaction, staring hopefully in anticipation. It doesn't work! All it does is make the employee give me one of those clueless, unnerving what-do-you-want-now looks that makes me want to throw whatever I just bought at 'em, especially the Mackinac Island Fudge Ice Cream that's already seeping through the ripped bag and onto my well-worn UGGS, making them look even uglier.
Please excuse me for asking, but what has happened to basic customer service, simple manners and the sacred mantra that the customer is is always right? More often than not, these treasures of civility seem to be missing in retail action.
FYI business owners: More and more I'm making my spending choices based on good customer service. I can, will and do pay more for this luxury. My husband will assure you that this far-too-frequent customer service snafu is costing you some major bucks!
Perhaps you could you at least try to address this before my next shopping trip?
Please?
Just asking... and thank you in advance!
Parents please take note-- there's little worse than a spoiled child with special needs, no manners and no discipline, unless of course, it's a privileged child without special needs, no manners and no discipline...!
Manners matter, and they should be taught to all children-
and modeled by the adults in their lives.
JudyWinter.com
Breakthrough Parenting for Children with Special Needs: Raisng the Bar of Expectations
MySpace.com/judy_winter
Judy Winter's FAV Quote of the Month February 2008
"Our time for change has come."
-Barack Obama
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-Barack Obama
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Wednesday, January 30, 2008
Judy Winter's New Website is Up & Running!
Great news, especially for everyone who's tired of looking at the outdated stuff on my old website (including me!). The new design went up this afternoon, and while we will still be tweaking technical issues and making some minor edits for a little while, what you see, is what you now get. There's lots to explore...
I hope you like it as much as I do! The talented design team has been working overtime on this one and it's a big improvement! Your constructive feedback is welcome! But please be patient while we fine tune!
Enjoy the new look and the new site!!
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Breakthrough Parenting for Children with Special Needs: Raising the Bar of Expectations
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I hope you like it as much as I do! The talented design team has been working overtime on this one and it's a big improvement! Your constructive feedback is welcome! But please be patient while we fine tune!
Enjoy the new look and the new site!!
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Breakthrough Parenting for Children with Special Needs: Raising the Bar of Expectations
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Monday, January 28, 2008
Minute Vacations February 2008
Judy's Minute Vacations for February 2008
Newport Beach, California
Enjoy the view!
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Friday, January 25, 2008
Pepsi, Super-Bowl Silence (gasp!) and Deaf Culture
The yearly Super Bowl ads always generate seasonal buzz and lots of noise, plus spirited water-cooler talk on Monday. This year promises to be no exception.
Except maybe for one. Thanks to those clever folks at PepsiCo (and their ad agency), one of this year's ads features 60 seconds of silence. Not a word, not a sound. Nada. Only American Sign Language (ASL).
When it comes to Super Bowl advertising, Pepsi rarely disappoints, but this time they've gone where few if any Super Bowl ads have gone before- to the topic of disability and the deaf culture, and they've done it with ground-breaking pizzaz.
That's right. A little disabliity awareness with your football, chips and beer- I mean Pepsi!
Right on!
If you haven't already seen the Pepsi Super Bowl ad featuring total silence and actors who are deaf, read on and link to the You Tube site below. Fact is, the special needs community is about to take a huge step forward in public awareness before the largest television audience in the world.
Priceless.
The ad already has tongues wagging, and that helps create awareness and discussion of ability, while challenging outdated thinking and stereotypes. That's progress.
-and people think those cute commercials are for pure entertainment.
Granted, Broussard, who plays Bob in the spot, isn't deaf (two other actors are), but he has a rare sensitivity and appreciation for this culture, and afterall, it was his idea. PepsiCo was just smart enough to run with the idea and deliver a welcome,ground-breaking, refreshing ad about something more than just selling a product.
Although I'm pretty sure PepsiCo hopes to sell product, too.
I raise my bottle of diet Pepsi to you PepsiCo for recognizing the insight and creative talent of your own employees, and for running with the idea during the super bowl of advertising gigs!
Pure genius!
Now, if only Josh Blue was performing at half time...
Check it out on You Tube, where you can also catch the behind-the-scenes production video, which does have sound! And if you like the ad, contact PepsiCo and tell them! Maybe this is only the beginning.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=ffrq6cUoE5A&feature=related
JudyWinter.com
Breakthrough Parenting for Children with Special Needs: Raising the Bar of Expectations
MySpace.com/judy_winter
Except maybe for one. Thanks to those clever folks at PepsiCo (and their ad agency), one of this year's ads features 60 seconds of silence. Not a word, not a sound. Nada. Only American Sign Language (ASL).
When it comes to Super Bowl advertising, Pepsi rarely disappoints, but this time they've gone where few if any Super Bowl ads have gone before- to the topic of disability and the deaf culture, and they've done it with ground-breaking pizzaz.
That's right. A little disabliity awareness with your football, chips and beer- I mean Pepsi!
Right on!
If you haven't already seen the Pepsi Super Bowl ad featuring total silence and actors who are deaf, read on and link to the You Tube site below. Fact is, the special needs community is about to take a huge step forward in public awareness before the largest television audience in the world.
Priceless.
The ad already has tongues wagging, and that helps create awareness and discussion of ability, while challenging outdated thinking and stereotypes. That's progress.
-and people think those cute commercials are for pure entertainment.
Granted, Broussard, who plays Bob in the spot, isn't deaf (two other actors are), but he has a rare sensitivity and appreciation for this culture, and afterall, it was his idea. PepsiCo was just smart enough to run with the idea and deliver a welcome,ground-breaking, refreshing ad about something more than just selling a product.
Although I'm pretty sure PepsiCo hopes to sell product, too.
I raise my bottle of diet Pepsi to you PepsiCo for recognizing the insight and creative talent of your own employees, and for running with the idea during the super bowl of advertising gigs!
Pure genius!
Now, if only Josh Blue was performing at half time...
Check it out on You Tube, where you can also catch the behind-the-scenes production video, which does have sound! And if you like the ad, contact PepsiCo and tell them! Maybe this is only the beginning.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=ffrq6cUoE5A&feature=related
JudyWinter.com
Breakthrough Parenting for Children with Special Needs: Raising the Bar of Expectations
MySpace.com/judy_winter
Monday, January 21, 2008
Catching Jane Austen Fever!
For the past two weeks, I've been hooked on The Complete Jane Austen PBS series. This beautifully produced program brings to life the seven novels of the talented writer in a skillful blending of stunning scenery, gorgeous costumes, skilled period-piece performances, and romantic entanglements that satisfies the senses and nurtures intelligence.
It's the ultimate weekly chick flick, but it's on TV with no commercial interruptions!
If you haven't been watching, it's not too late to catch Jane fever. There are five more Sunday evenings left to help you escape winter's dreary hold and embrace the romance! (check your local PBS listings for air times). You can also purchase the DVD and experience all the sensory magic over and over again.
Check out the details at: www.pbs.org. -and don't forget to support your local PBS station!
Enjoy!
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It's the ultimate weekly chick flick, but it's on TV with no commercial interruptions!
If you haven't been watching, it's not too late to catch Jane fever. There are five more Sunday evenings left to help you escape winter's dreary hold and embrace the romance! (check your local PBS listings for air times). You can also purchase the DVD and experience all the sensory magic over and over again.
Check out the details at: www.pbs.org. -and don't forget to support your local PBS station!
Enjoy!
JudyWinter.com
Breakthrough Parenting for Children with Special Needs: Raising the Bar of Expectations
MySpace.com/judy_winter
Sunday, January 20, 2008
Honoring Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Day 2008
Monday we pay national tribute to Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. and rightly so.
But as the nation reflects upon Dr. King’s message on this recognized Day of Service, far too many people still view King's dream as one involving only race, allowing them to more easily dismiss the day's significance.
King's ideals serve as powerful examples to all, including to me in my work as a writer, author, speaker and advocate on special needs issues. This timely human rights discussion, one of great magnitude and importance, has been given greater power, understanding and voice because of Dr. King's work.
I parented a child with cerebral palsy, a wheelchair user, for nearly thirteen years. Harsh judgment of Eric’s human value because of disability required me to advocate for his basic rights every day until Eric’s death in 2003 at age twelve. Yet, I am an educated white woman living in the suburbs, complete with a white picket fence.
Dr. King’s words have proved powerful motivators in my difficult walk. ‘I have a dream’ has many times fueled my quest for better life opportunities for my son and others. Mine has been a heartfelt journey filled with both enormous blessings and stinging rejection, along with stellar examples about how spirited leadership impacts human rights from Dr. King and Robert F. Kennedy, another hero of mine.
For more than fifteen years, my tough parenting journey and heartbreaking loss have challenged me to use my voice, talent, and experiences to become a nationally recognized voice on the subject of special needs parenting issues. My son’s life and mine have been infinitely richer because of the gutsy example of Dr. King.
When my son died, I channeled my intense grief into penning a special needs parenting book to help other families navigate the rocky parenting waters a bit easier. I helped establish the annual Eric ‘RicStar’ Winter Music Therapy Camp at Michigan State University, which honors my son’s remarkable gift for music. RicStar’s Camp serves individuals of all ages with a wide range of special needs. We nurture individual ability and serve as an example of successful inclusion in the many communities we serve.
Like Dr. King, I believe strongly that ‘what impacts one, impacts all.’ Only a fine line of circumstance separates us.
Fifty-four million Americans have disabilities; 200 million people worldwide have intellectual disabilities (formerly know as mental retardation). Today, many of these individuals are still undersocialized, undereducated and undervalued. Many face inexcusable struggles familiar to other minorities, making Dr. King’s fire, passion and example critical to my on-going work, and to that of others working for much-needed societal change.
Dr. King's message holds meaning for each one of our lives. Millions of people living with the tough daily realities of special needs understand Dr. King's dream all too well. More than one has taken his/her important place at the forefront of a human rights movement designed to grant millions of children and adults the right to live out their life dreams, too That includes the ground-breaking work of visionaries Eunice Kennedy Shriver, Tim Shriver, and Christopher and Dana Reeve.
Dr. King fought for justice and equality for all. Through my passionate special needs work, I’m proud and honored in 2014 to be living out Dr. King’s dream.
His powerful lessons live on.
The lessons belong to all.
For learn more about Dr. King's work and Monday's Day of Service, visit: www.thekingcenter.com or www.mlkday.org.
JudyWinter.com
Breakthrough Parenting for Children with Special Needs: Raising the Bar of Expectations
MySpace.com/judy_winter
But as the nation reflects upon Dr. King’s message on this recognized Day of Service, far too many people still view King's dream as one involving only race, allowing them to more easily dismiss the day's significance.
King's ideals serve as powerful examples to all, including to me in my work as a writer, author, speaker and advocate on special needs issues. This timely human rights discussion, one of great magnitude and importance, has been given greater power, understanding and voice because of Dr. King's work.
I parented a child with cerebral palsy, a wheelchair user, for nearly thirteen years. Harsh judgment of Eric’s human value because of disability required me to advocate for his basic rights every day until Eric’s death in 2003 at age twelve. Yet, I am an educated white woman living in the suburbs, complete with a white picket fence.
Dr. King’s words have proved powerful motivators in my difficult walk. ‘I have a dream’ has many times fueled my quest for better life opportunities for my son and others. Mine has been a heartfelt journey filled with both enormous blessings and stinging rejection, along with stellar examples about how spirited leadership impacts human rights from Dr. King and Robert F. Kennedy, another hero of mine.
For more than fifteen years, my tough parenting journey and heartbreaking loss have challenged me to use my voice, talent, and experiences to become a nationally recognized voice on the subject of special needs parenting issues. My son’s life and mine have been infinitely richer because of the gutsy example of Dr. King.
When my son died, I channeled my intense grief into penning a special needs parenting book to help other families navigate the rocky parenting waters a bit easier. I helped establish the annual Eric ‘RicStar’ Winter Music Therapy Camp at Michigan State University, which honors my son’s remarkable gift for music. RicStar’s Camp serves individuals of all ages with a wide range of special needs. We nurture individual ability and serve as an example of successful inclusion in the many communities we serve.
Like Dr. King, I believe strongly that ‘what impacts one, impacts all.’ Only a fine line of circumstance separates us.
Fifty-four million Americans have disabilities; 200 million people worldwide have intellectual disabilities (formerly know as mental retardation). Today, many of these individuals are still undersocialized, undereducated and undervalued. Many face inexcusable struggles familiar to other minorities, making Dr. King’s fire, passion and example critical to my on-going work, and to that of others working for much-needed societal change.
Dr. King's message holds meaning for each one of our lives. Millions of people living with the tough daily realities of special needs understand Dr. King's dream all too well. More than one has taken his/her important place at the forefront of a human rights movement designed to grant millions of children and adults the right to live out their life dreams, too That includes the ground-breaking work of visionaries Eunice Kennedy Shriver, Tim Shriver, and Christopher and Dana Reeve.
Dr. King fought for justice and equality for all. Through my passionate special needs work, I’m proud and honored in 2014 to be living out Dr. King’s dream.
His powerful lessons live on.
The lessons belong to all.
For learn more about Dr. King's work and Monday's Day of Service, visit: www.thekingcenter.com or www.mlkday.org.
JudyWinter.com
Breakthrough Parenting for Children with Special Needs: Raising the Bar of Expectations
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Saturday, January 19, 2008
I'm a Big Fan of...! -January 2008
You may have noticed that I've started more than one of my ramblings with the words,
'I'm a big fan of... !'
So, I'm making it an official monthly entry!
Here's my January 2008 gush.
I'M A BIG FAN OF JOSH BLUE!
This super-talented comedian shot to fame by winning Season 4 of NBC's hit show, 'Last Comic Standing.'
Josh Blue also happens to have CP, a reality he doesn't shy away from in his act. But it isn't all he delivers either. He helps fight stereotypes by addressing the white elephant in the room, not by tripping over or ignoring the beast.
When Josh first appeared on the show, I admit I found myself hoping he wouldn't be relegated to the sympathy vote by playing on any audience discomfort with disability.
But the confident young comedian quickly became a crowd favorite (and mine), for all the right reasons, providing a valuable, and hilarious example of ability before an international audience.
Josh Blue won 'Last Comic Standing' because he deserved to win, a reality the audience got, including me.
CP aside, the guy's just plain funny.
Check Josh out- and tell him that I sent you!
www.joshblue.com
JudyWinter.com
Breakthrough Parenting for Children with Special Needs: Raising the Bar of Expectations
MySpace.com/judy_winter
'I'm a big fan of... !'
So, I'm making it an official monthly entry!
Here's my January 2008 gush.
I'M A BIG FAN OF JOSH BLUE!
This super-talented comedian shot to fame by winning Season 4 of NBC's hit show, 'Last Comic Standing.'
Josh Blue also happens to have CP, a reality he doesn't shy away from in his act. But it isn't all he delivers either. He helps fight stereotypes by addressing the white elephant in the room, not by tripping over or ignoring the beast.
When Josh first appeared on the show, I admit I found myself hoping he wouldn't be relegated to the sympathy vote by playing on any audience discomfort with disability.
But the confident young comedian quickly became a crowd favorite (and mine), for all the right reasons, providing a valuable, and hilarious example of ability before an international audience.
Josh Blue won 'Last Comic Standing' because he deserved to win, a reality the audience got, including me.
CP aside, the guy's just plain funny.
Check Josh out- and tell him that I sent you!
www.joshblue.com
JudyWinter.com
Breakthrough Parenting for Children with Special Needs: Raising the Bar of Expectations
MySpace.com/judy_winter
Thursday, January 17, 2008
Don't Miss Oprah's Monday Tribute to Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
Be sure to catch Oprah's Monday tribute to Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. The Dream Lives On- A Martin Luther King Day Special promises to deliver a powerful hour featuring a well-deserved tribute to this remarkable man who fought for the rights of all people. The program will explore the importance of King's legacy for us today.
King's work holds special meaning for those of us who care about the rights of those with special needs, a huge population that in 2008 is at the forefront of its own human rights movement. I'll be sharing my own perspective about all of this right here on Monday, too.
Let's hope we also see some of the great kids with special needs that O producers auditioned for their 'I Have a Dream, Today!' montage. Keep your eyes open! That inclusion would be huge.
How will you recognize this important day?
JudyWinter.com
Breakthrough Parenting for Children with Special Needs: Raising the Bar of Expectations
MySpace.com/judy_winter
King's work holds special meaning for those of us who care about the rights of those with special needs, a huge population that in 2008 is at the forefront of its own human rights movement. I'll be sharing my own perspective about all of this right here on Monday, too.
Let's hope we also see some of the great kids with special needs that O producers auditioned for their 'I Have a Dream, Today!' montage. Keep your eyes open! That inclusion would be huge.
How will you recognize this important day?
JudyWinter.com
Breakthrough Parenting for Children with Special Needs: Raising the Bar of Expectations
MySpace.com/judy_winter
Wednesday, January 16, 2008
Celebrating the 2008 Detroit Auto Show!
Another annual rite that says Spring isn't too far off is the 2008 Detroit Auto Show, a.k.a. the North American International Auto Show (NAIAS).
One of my fondest memories is attending this event with with my son during the last year of his life. Eric's wheelchair use granted our family early entry to the event, which allowed my son to enjoy the experience and cars up close before the overwhelming masses and die-hard fans descended.
We had a blast helping our budding-photographer son capture some amazing images, photos I now treasure.
Public admittance is: Saturday, January 19, 2008 to Sunday, January 27, 2008. Show hours are Saturday, January 19 to Saturday, January 26: 9:00 a.m. to 10:00 p.m. No admittance after 9:00 p.m.
Check it out if you can. Word on the street, and in the media, is that it's worth all the automotive hype.
They don't call Detroit the Motor City for nothing!
JudyWinter.com
Breakthrough Parenting for Children with Special Needs: Raising the Bar of Expectations
MySpace.com/judy_winter
One of my fondest memories is attending this event with with my son during the last year of his life. Eric's wheelchair use granted our family early entry to the event, which allowed my son to enjoy the experience and cars up close before the overwhelming masses and die-hard fans descended.
We had a blast helping our budding-photographer son capture some amazing images, photos I now treasure.
Public admittance is: Saturday, January 19, 2008 to Sunday, January 27, 2008. Show hours are Saturday, January 19 to Saturday, January 26: 9:00 a.m. to 10:00 p.m. No admittance after 9:00 p.m.
Check it out if you can. Word on the street, and in the media, is that it's worth all the automotive hype.
They don't call Detroit the Motor City for nothing!
JudyWinter.com
Breakthrough Parenting for Children with Special Needs: Raising the Bar of Expectations
MySpace.com/judy_winter
Promises of Spring!
The days are getting longer, the sun is getting stronger, and the birds are again warbling sweet early morning tunes!
Have you noticed?
JudyWinter.com
Breakthrough Parenting for Children with Special Needs: Raising the Bar of Expectations
MySpace.com/judy_winter
Wall Street Journal Infiniti Ad & Review of Breakthrough Parenting
In case you're interested, you can catch the profile of my work, and me, in the Infiniti ad appearing in tomorrow's Wall Street Journal on page A 3. Thanks, Infiniti, for recognizing the value of what I do and putting it before such a great audience!
Since the book's release I've been fortunate to continue to receive some terrific press coverage and reviews for my work. I just ran across a recent review in Durham Parent that I especially like, so I'm sharing the link here in case you'd like to check it out.
Editor Kevin Mackinnon gets my work better than most and his review reflects that, especially as he connects my work to that of five-time Ironman Champion triathlete Heather Gollnick, who also has a child with cerebral palsy.
I've often said (and written) that special needs parenting is much like running a marathon without the necessary training.
Mackinnon is a well-known former professional triathlete, a coach/trainer and frequent contibuter to the Canadian Broadcasting Company who is covering the Ironman World Championship in Hawaii this month.
His Nov. 17th, 2007 review of my book appears at DurhamParent.com.
Here's the link: http://www.durhamparent.com/uppingtheparentinggame.html
More great awareness for the cause of special needs!
JudyWinter.com
Breakthrough Parenting for Children with Special Needs: Raising the Bar of Expectations
MySpace.com/judy_winter
Since the book's release I've been fortunate to continue to receive some terrific press coverage and reviews for my work. I just ran across a recent review in Durham Parent that I especially like, so I'm sharing the link here in case you'd like to check it out.
Editor Kevin Mackinnon gets my work better than most and his review reflects that, especially as he connects my work to that of five-time Ironman Champion triathlete Heather Gollnick, who also has a child with cerebral palsy.
I've often said (and written) that special needs parenting is much like running a marathon without the necessary training.
Mackinnon is a well-known former professional triathlete, a coach/trainer and frequent contibuter to the Canadian Broadcasting Company who is covering the Ironman World Championship in Hawaii this month.
His Nov. 17th, 2007 review of my book appears at DurhamParent.com.
Here's the link: http://www.durhamparent.com/uppingtheparentinggame.html
More great awareness for the cause of special needs!
JudyWinter.com
Breakthrough Parenting for Children with Special Needs: Raising the Bar of Expectations
MySpace.com/judy_winter
Tuesday, January 08, 2008
DO YOU EVER WONDER WHY?-January 2008
DO YOU EVER WONDER WHY?...
When people ask us how we're doing on the roughest days, we often fake a funky grin and respond with that all-too-familiar four-letter word, 'FINE.'
You're fine, you say? Sure you are:
...You just got back from a midnight run to ER with a kid who's been running a 104 temp and who's still vomiting non stop on your one clean shirt. FINE!
...You've been up all night with a screaming toddler, while struggling to stay out of bed with the nasty flu bug because you have to meet your child's on-going, never-ending health-care needs. FINE!
..You're preparing for another nerve-wracking IEPT meeting with your less-than-friendly neighborhood school district in the morning and you aren't the least bit prepared. FINE!
...Your family is eating crusty, leftover mac/cheese for the fourth night in a row and there's no sign of clean laundry (or uncurdled milk) anywhere within 100 miles of your house. FINE!
...Your insurance company just denied your claim for the medication needed to improve your child's health, behavior and well being (and yours!). FINE!
...You don't remember when you last took a hot shower, styled your hair, brushed your teeth or changed your underwear ('cause the laundry hasn't been done!). FINE!
You're FINE! FINE! FINE!
But are you?
If you insist on pretending you don't need support from others when you clearly do, then FINE, but don't be surprised if you burn out. When you choose to remain silent about your true needs because you don't want to bother others with overwhelming life demands, you and your family pay a high price.
When it comes to parenting, especially for a child with special needs, it's okay and healthy to ask for help.
So here's an effective tactic I've learned through trial and error (there's lots more tips in my book!). The next time someone asks how you're doing, try answering honestly and tell them what you need. (i.e.: childcare for some time away, a hot meal one night a week, help with all the laundry, a cleaning lady who will scrub the toilets for you, a litle time shipwrecked on a tropical island with no cell phone, time to cry in private, and how about a brand-new-stinkin life!).
The world won't end because you utter these bold words.
True, you might scare a few people away with your new-found freedom to spout freely, and some of the questionable requests will go unanswered (complete with those have-you-completely-lost-it? stares). But then again, you might just get some of your most pressing needs met, including the need for clean underwear.
...and wouldn't that be just fine?
Just asking...
JudyWinter.com
Breakthrough Parenting for Children with Special Needs: Raising the Bar of Expectations.
MySpace.com/judy_winter
When people ask us how we're doing on the roughest days, we often fake a funky grin and respond with that all-too-familiar four-letter word, 'FINE.'
You're fine, you say? Sure you are:
...You just got back from a midnight run to ER with a kid who's been running a 104 temp and who's still vomiting non stop on your one clean shirt. FINE!
...You've been up all night with a screaming toddler, while struggling to stay out of bed with the nasty flu bug because you have to meet your child's on-going, never-ending health-care needs. FINE!
..You're preparing for another nerve-wracking IEPT meeting with your less-than-friendly neighborhood school district in the morning and you aren't the least bit prepared. FINE!
...Your family is eating crusty, leftover mac/cheese for the fourth night in a row and there's no sign of clean laundry (or uncurdled milk) anywhere within 100 miles of your house. FINE!
...Your insurance company just denied your claim for the medication needed to improve your child's health, behavior and well being (and yours!). FINE!
...You don't remember when you last took a hot shower, styled your hair, brushed your teeth or changed your underwear ('cause the laundry hasn't been done!). FINE!
You're FINE! FINE! FINE!
But are you?
If you insist on pretending you don't need support from others when you clearly do, then FINE, but don't be surprised if you burn out. When you choose to remain silent about your true needs because you don't want to bother others with overwhelming life demands, you and your family pay a high price.
When it comes to parenting, especially for a child with special needs, it's okay and healthy to ask for help.
So here's an effective tactic I've learned through trial and error (there's lots more tips in my book!). The next time someone asks how you're doing, try answering honestly and tell them what you need. (i.e.: childcare for some time away, a hot meal one night a week, help with all the laundry, a cleaning lady who will scrub the toilets for you, a litle time shipwrecked on a tropical island with no cell phone, time to cry in private, and how about a brand-new-stinkin life!).
The world won't end because you utter these bold words.
True, you might scare a few people away with your new-found freedom to spout freely, and some of the questionable requests will go unanswered (complete with those have-you-completely-lost-it? stares). But then again, you might just get some of your most pressing needs met, including the need for clean underwear.
...and wouldn't that be just fine?
Just asking...
JudyWinter.com
Breakthrough Parenting for Children with Special Needs: Raising the Bar of Expectations.
MySpace.com/judy_winter
Friday, January 04, 2008
Minute Vacations January 2008
Judy's Minute Vacations for January 2008
Lahaina, Maui
I know how hard it can be for parents of children with special needs to find time to get away from their demands and refuel. I also know there are times when you'd like to run away from home, for good! To help keep you from abandoning your kids, I'm starting monthly Minute Vacations on my blog. I hope some of my travel photos will allow you to escape, refuel, and daydream, if only for a short while.
It's amazing what even a little time away can do for your mental health!
Enjoy!
JudyWinter.com
Breakthrough Parenting for Children with Special Needs: Raising the Bar of Expectations
MySpace.com/judy_winter
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